From Hatton Garden to Hod HaSharon: how we clinched a wartime engagement

Israeli receives diamond ring just in time for his proposal – with help from a keen-eyed journalist and a well-connected Brit

Kobi proposes to Liron in Hod HaSharon, central Israel, on 19 October
Kobi proposes to Liron in Hod HaSharon, central Israel, on 19 October

Amid the seemingly unrelenting gloom there was rejoicing in a house in central Israel this week when a young couple became engaged, thanks to the teamwork of a kind Brit and this newspaper.

Kobi had bought a diamond engagement ring from Hatton Garden, which his best friend was due to bring to him on 11 October, ready for him to pop the question to his girlfriend a few days later. After the outbreak of war, the friend’s flight was cancelled.

Love makes people bold; that was certainly its effect on Kobi. The IT consultant, who was born in Israel but brought up in Stamford Hill and Edgware, and made aliyah five years ago, found and joined a WhatsApp group for Israelis in London and posted a request for help in finding someone else to bring the ring.

“I really, really want to propose, even now,” he wrote in the post last Saturday, a week after the Hamas attacks, and with the sound of rocket attacks in his ears. “It’s crazy to trust someone I don’t know with an engagement ring to bring to me in the middle of a war but I have little choice.”

A Jewish News reporter saw the post and messaged a well-connected friend with lots of contacts in Tel Aviv, who wishes to remain anonymous. “Yes,” they replied, almost instantly, when asked if he could help. “Someone is flying out tomorrow. I’ll put you in touch.”

Sure enough, the following day Kobi’s mother, Ilana Mansoor, who lives in Edgware, drove to Luton airport with the ring and handed it over. Kobi, 33, who lives in Hod HaSharon, greeted the kind Brit with a bottle of whisky as a thank you gift and took receipt of his precious consignment.

Kobi’s message on the UK WhatsApp group

Kobi, who is hugely grateful to everyone involved in helping his proposal go ahead, said it felt “totally unreal that this was being done for me”. Of his relationship with Liron, 32, an accountant he has known for a year, he said: “When you know you know.” And any doubt that he is a real romantic is dispelled when he replies to a question about how they met: “It was a moonlit evening and I was swiping right on an application…”

Engaged: ‘When you know, you know,’ Kobi says of their decision to marry

On 19 October, with their friends around them and with Kobi’s family watching on a livestream, he got down on one knee. For their friends and relatives it was “a dream to hear our news in this terrible time”, Liron said of their engagement.

As for the wedding itself, that will have to wait but the couple are hoping it will happen in three to six months. Something tells us there that, as well as family and friends, there’ll be an extra person on the guest list.

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