Opinion

Bring Them Home was never just a slogan. It was a promise

As Ran Gvili's body is recovered from Gaza, the head of the Hostages and Missing Families Forum UK described how 'Hope is not passive. Hope is an act of resistance.'

For the first time since 2014, there are no hostages held in tunnels of Gaza. 251 hostages were taken on Oct 7. Now the last, Ran Givli, is home, killed defending Israeli civilians from Hamas terrorists. Pic: Twitter/X
For the first time since 2014, there are no hostages held in tunnels of Gaza. 251 hostages were taken on Oct 7. Now the last, Ran Givli, is home, killed defending Israeli civilians from Hamas terrorists. Pic: Twitter/X

There are moments in life when you realise you are carrying something far heavier than yourself. Not physically. Not visibly. But in the quiet spaces between messages. In the pauses after phone calls. In the weight of other people’s unbearable reality.

For me, this has been the journey of standing alongside hostage families. Holding their pain. Holding their hope. And often, holding both at the same time.

Advocating for families when they are exhausted. When they have nothing left to give. When every interview, every meeting, every retelling of their story costs them something they cannot afford to lose, yet they do it anyway, because their loved one’s life depends on it.

Believing, fiercely and stubbornly, that all hostages will return. Even when logic says otherwise. Even when the world seems to move on. Even when hope feels naïve. Especially then.

40,000 march at a Hostages event organised with 7/10 Human Chain, June 2024.

Hope is not passive. Hope is an act of resistance.

Some families cling to hope as a lifeline. Others hold it like fragile glass. And some, like the Gvili family, held onto it with every breath, believing until today that their beloved might still be alive. Their last thread of hope has now shattered. There are no words big enough for that kind of loss. Only silence, presence, and the knowledge that nothing will ever be the same again.

Walking alongside families means living in a permanent state of “not knowing.” Not knowing how long this nightmare will last. Not knowing if the next call will bring good news or devastating confirmation. Being next to them at times when they get the call. Not knowing if something you are doing today will be the last time you ever do it.

Hadar Goldin, Gail Davidson, Nivi Feldman. Pic; Courtesy

The last time you walk into Parliament with a family member.
The last time you arrange a meeting between a hostage’s parent and an MP.
The last time you fundraise for a cause meant simply to make life a fraction more bearable.
The last time you agree to do an interview on national television.

You never know which moment is a “last.”

And yet, you show up anyway.

Yellow ribbons, dog tags and bracelets advocating for the release of the hostages.

This work was never planned. No one appointed me. No one asked me to do it. It began because I couldn’t look away. Because I met families. Because I heard their stories. Because once you hear them, you cannot unknow them. The same is true for my incredible team, and for so many others I have met along this journey. People who, like me, simply chose to step forward.

Because I can.
Because we can.
Because we must.

If I have the ability to connect people, to open doors, to create platforms, to build bridges, then I carry a responsibility to use those skills.

One of the first hostages I knew up close was Ohad Munder Zichri, who was released in the first hostage deal in November 2023. He had been with my children in camp. He was not a headline. Not a statistic. He was a person. A presence. A familiar face in a place meant to be safe.

That moment shattered the illusion of distance.

Since then, the journey has taken me from grief to action. From mourning to mobilisation. From standing outside buildings with posters to standing inside rooms where decisions are shaped.

I have met returned hostages. Looked into eyes that have seen unimaginable darkness. Held hands that tremble as they speak. Listened to stories that will never leave me.

Ran Gvili

I have walked alongside families like Talik and Itzik Gvili, advocating, organising, pushing, believing on days when belief feels impossible.

I have watched ideas turn into events within hours. Vigils. Panels. Meetings. Campaigns. Fundraisers. Sometimes born from a single message. Sometimes from a sleepless night. Always driven by urgency.

Because time is not neutral.

Every hour matters.

This journey has shown me the extraordinary power of human connection. What happens when strangers become allies. When communities become families. When bridges are built between people who would otherwise never meet.

It has also shown me the quiet heroism of ordinary people who refuse to stay silent.

Emilie Moatti, Talik Gvili, Sir Tony Blair, Itzik Gvili, Nivi Feldman. Pic: Courtesy

At the darkest time, we chose to spread light.

Not because we were strong.
But because the families deserved strength.

Not because we were fearless.
But because silence was worse.

We carried their pain.
We carried their hope.

And today, after 843 days, the last hostage, Ran Gvili, was finally returned to Israel.

Not in the way anyone dreamed of.
Not with the ending we prayed for.
But home.

A return that carries grief, relief, heartbreak, and love all at once.

Bring Them Home was never just a slogan. It was a promise. A demand. A moral line in the sand.

And today, that promise was finally fulfilled.

Bring Them Home.
Finally.

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