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Making sense of the sedra: Yitro

The art of listening

Parashat Yitro is most famous for Matan Torah, the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai – arguably the most pivotal moment in our Jewish history. The thunder, the lightning and the divine voice booming from the heavens create an awe-inspiring image. Yet, before this monumental event, we encounter an entirely different kind of revelation – one rooted not in divine spectacle, but in human wisdom and attentive listening.

The parasha opens with Yitro, Moshe’s father-in-law, arriving at the Israelite camp after hearing about the miraculous Exodus. He observes Moshe single-handedly judging the people all day and wisely suggests a more sustainable system: appointing leaders to share the burden of governance. Moshe listens to Yitro and implements his advice, demonstrating humility and an openness to learning.

What’s remarkable is that Yitro, a Midianite priest, is not part of Am Yisrael. Yet his voice matters and Moshe listened. His fresh perspective – an outsider looking in – helps shape the Jewish judicial system. This teaches us that wisdom is not limited, we should always be looking to learn and grow and find opportunities even in the most unlikely places.

In today’s world, where we often talk past each other, Yitro’s story is a powerful reminder of the importance of listening. We live in an age of instant opinions and constant noise, where social media arguments escalate quickly, and ideological bubbles prevent meaningful dialogue. Yitro challenges us to step back and hear advice, even (or especially) when it comes from outside our own echo chamber.

The giving of the Torah at Sinai reinforces this theme. Chazal tell us that Bnei Yisrael responded with “Na’aseh v’nishma“—we will do, and we will listen. Why emphasise listening? The answer is because true wisdom comes not just from knowing but from being willing to hear, absorb, and grow. Yitro’s model of listening and advising with humility is the perfect precursor to the ultimate revelation at Sinai, where the Jewish people commit to lifelong learning and listening.

We learn from the interaction between Yitro and Moshe to be open to wisdom from unexpected places and refine the art of truly listening – to others, to our traditions, and to the subtle yet profound ways in which Hashem guides our lives.

 

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