Transgender Charedi dad-of-five abandons legal fight to see children
Orthodox Jew from Manchester, who has not seen her children since 2015, ends long-running bid to be 'sensitively reintroduced to them'
An Orthodox Jew from Manchester who transitioned from a man to a woman has finally ended her legal battle to see her five children.
The decision brings to an end a long-running and ultimately heart-breaking case in which she fought their children’s mother, who had argued that the Orthodox community would shun the youngsters if they saw their biological father as a woman.
While strict media limits are still in-place, a judge this week said the case could now be reported as having ended.
The transgender woman, from north Manchester’s Charedi community, has not seen her children since 2015, and had argued in court that she could be “sensitively reintroduced to them,” after an earlier ruling said contact should be by “letter only”.
Mr Justice Hayden, based in the family division of the High Court in London, drew the litigation to a close on Monday after the woman’s lawyers said she had decided to withdraw her application for an order allowing her to see her children.
Hayden was sitting to reconsider the case, after the woman successfully appealed an earlier ruling which stated that the children should not see her, and that contact should instead be by exchange of letters.
Hayden acknowledged that contact with the children may be “emotionally harmful” to them and said he hoped the “courageous” family could move on.
The issue is a sore one. In 2018 Chief Rabbi Ephraim Mirvis produced a schools guide with Jewish LGBT+ group Keshet which recognised “the reality that there are young lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender students in our schools to whom we have a duty of care”.
While many welcomed it, some Orthodox critics berated Mirvis for his intervention, with senior Charedi rabbis such as Jerusalem-based Rabbi Moshe Sternbuch calling it “blasphemy”.
Keep community journalism free.
Jewish News is free for everyone. No paywall. No barriers. Just trusted journalism for anyone who wants to stay connected to Jewish life in Britain.
If you value that, please support us.
From as little as £5 a month, you can help keep our journalism free and accessible to all.
Every day, we report on the issues that matter to our community. We celebrate achievements, support charities, challenge antisemitism and ensure Jewish voices are heard more widely.
From as little as £5 a month, you can help us continue to:
- Report on the stories shaping Jewish life in the UK and beyond
- Bring our community together through shared stories, events and campaigns
- Celebrate the people, culture and moments that define our community
- Support organisations doing vital work across Jewish Britain
You can make a one-off donation or become a regular supporter. Every contribution helps keep our journalism free, independent and accessible to all.
If everyone who values Jewish News gave a small amount, it would make a real difference to our future.






















